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THE WRITE MIND

                             monthly coaching newsletter for writers

June 2009

Dear Subscriber,

My first child, a boy, is due in a few short weeks, on July 4th!  "Dependence day," we're calling it.  Nine months, gone in a flash.  My entire life, at the brink of transformation.  I mention this because the decision to procreate and its subsequent inevitability embody change in its two most basic forms: the kind you consciously bring about, and the kind you can't avoid.

Ready to make/embrace those changes you've been thinking about?  This month I'm offering a 10 percent discount on coaching services for subscribers to The Write Mind.  Sample sessions are fun and free, and carry no obligation.  Request one here and take the first step toward what lies ahead.

 

Also this month, I'm seeking parties with writing-related services, products or offerings--editorial services, books for sale, stories/articles posted on the Internet, etc.--who would like to get some targeted exposure via this newsletter.  All it'll cost you is a link exchange.  Interested?  Please contact me to discuss the details.

Happy writing!  See you next month...


Sincerely,

Doug Kurtz

Writing Life Coach; about me

Word of (the) Mouth

Change (cheynj): The passing from one place, state, form, or phase to another; transformation or modification.  To make the form, nature, future course, etc. of (something) different from what it is or from what it would be if left alone.

As a noun, it's inevitable, the state of the universe; it's going to happen whether you like it or not.  As a verb, it's something you can actuate; you have the power to bring it about.

This month, this year, this life, roll with the changes you can't avoid.  And make the ones you want to see.

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Writing Intuitively, Part Two

Coaching tips, techniques and resources for writers

In the novel I’m writing, fire images recur ad nauseum.  Boats burn, yards burn, dogs leap through flame, etc.  The repetition eventually caught my attention, and my rational mind recoiled.  Why so much fire?  This is nonsense, man, stop it!

I made a conscious effort to snuff the flames, despite an urge to incinerate things in almost every chapter.  Thousands of words later, I caught myself writing a scene in which an entire prairie burns.  Then it hit me: fire was the solution to motivation problems my protagonist had been struggling with since the novel’s inception.  Intuition was trying to clue me in, but my rational mind, with its insistence on reason, wouldn’t listen.

How can intuition be accessed and employed in writing?  What role does it play in the writing process?  I asked a poet, a nonfiction author and a novelist how they harness their intuitive power.  Here’s a summation of what they said:

  • Warm up.  Read something before you write, to create an aura of intuition and give yourself an opening into an idea or feeling.  Take a word, phrase or mood and transfer it to the first moments of writing.  Something emerges onto the page intuitively, in the context of your project, and then you can develop it.

  • Listen.  Open up to your inner voice and hear what it’s saying.  It might be the voice of a character, or a wiser version of yourself.  Don’t force it, just wait for an idea, snip of dialogue, image, etc. that grabs you.  If it rings true, use it.

  • Pay attention.  Be aware of urges and hunches while you write.  If you feel a pull in some direction, go that way.  When you’re having trouble making a decision in your piece, there’s usually an intuitive wisdom that knows what to do.  If you pay attention, the decision’s already made.

  • Play.  Intuition comes through most easily when you’re having fun.  Stress and worry shut it down.  If one chapter seems more fun than another, work on that one, even if your rational side doesn’t like the sequence.  You have to stay loose to open the door.

  • Interpret.  It’s not always obvious what to do with intuitive insights.  Sometimes you have to zoom back and ask yourself how they fit into the big picture.  What do they mean?  How can they contribute?  Allow intuition to come through first, then let lefty figure out what to do with it.

Intuition is the spark that ignites great writing, but like the smell of distant smoke it’s easy to ignore and rationalize away.  In most of us, the rational mind is well developed, while intuition is largely suppressed.  But where’s the logic in that?  If both are needed to produce our best work, doesn’t it stand to reason that we should develop intuition?

Next time, with help from Shakti Gawain’s excellent book, Developing Intuition, I’ll outline some steps you can take to get rational and light a flame under yours.

Reads for Writers

Coach Doug's picks for improving your writing life

Getting Things Done: The Art of Stress-Free Productivity, by David Allen  (productivity/self-help)

Ever have trouble finding time to write?  Or banning that to-do list from your mind when you finally get some?  Me, too.  I picked up David Allen's book hoping it would help, and it did.  A lot.  His premise is straightforward and simple:
Productivity is directly proportional to our ability to relax.  Makes sense, right?  When's the last time you wrote well with half your mind on something else, with feelings of confusion, anxiety or overwhelm churning in the background because other things in your life weren't getting done?  Probably never.

According to Allen, reaching our creative potential and achieving effective results is possible only when our minds are clear and our thoughts are organized.  To function at our best, we need a reliable system for tracking and managing all the "open loops" in our life: projects, tasks, meetings, phone calls, etc.  When you know your open loops are being effectively managed by a system outside your head, you can achieve a state of productive relaxation, reacting to workflow intuitively, with a fluid 'mind like water'.

Allen's system takes time and effort to implement, but it's worth it.  I've been using it for only a couple of weeks and I've already noticed a huge improvement in my efficiency and organization, and in my mental state at work.  I know what to do with every item that lands on my desk or in my inbox, and I don't lose track of things that can't be handled right away.  What a relief.  No more psychic weight from things undone, and for me this translates into lots more writing time, distraction-free. Amazon link

THE STORY OF EDGAR SAWTELLE, by David Wroblewski (fiction/novel)

Selection #62 in Oprah's Book Club needs no exposure from the likes of me, but I'm including it here anyway.  Any book that can keep me engaged for 500-plus pages, and distract me from writerly analysis despite my best efforts, deserves a recommendation, even if it's already selling in the trillions. 

Edgar Sawtelle, mute at birth, grows up on a Wisconsin farm, where his family breeds dogs.  Antagonized by his uncle, Edgar is forced to flee into the wilderness until he can prove the cause of his father's death.  That's the premise, more or less, and it sets the stage for a deeply engaging novel.  But that's not the only reason to read: There's a ton of great writing in here, too--if you can keep your head above the story long enough to pay attention. 

Take the prologue, for example.  If you want to know what a good one's supposed to do, look no further.  Wroblewski's creates immediate suspense and raises questions that we remember some 400 pages later.  And setting?  His transcends idle background to become a major driving force in the story.  His characters are motivated, and developed through clearly defined conflicts.  His images and descriptions are sharp and resonant.  His point of view switches are purposeful and well-timed.  And if you're thinking of writing about dogs, this novel is a must-read user's manual for doing it well. Amazon link.

Stolen Goods

Monthly writing, skill building and problem solving exercises

A big challenge for many fiction writers is to create characters who act on their desires rather than just thinking about them--characters who move intentionally toward change.  Clearly identifying a character's motivation for action is challenging, too--especially when you want the action to both arise from and embody the motivation.  Here's a fun, versatile exercise you can use to explore the relationship between motivation and action.

To start, go through your house--junk drawers, closets, garage, whatever--and look for objects that catch your interest.  Quirky, suggestive objects with lots of associations tend to work best.  Maybe you find a grubby baby booty, or an old family photo, or a brand new pair of ski goggles, still in the box.  Once you have something you like, sit down and free write for ten minutes about why your character stole that object.  Write in first-person, from the point of view of the character.  You'll be surprised by what you discover, and how relevant it is to your story.  Once you determine your character's motivation for stealing the object, go on to explore other aspects of the situation.  Who did she steal it from?  Where?  How?  What happened afterwards?  What did she do with the object?  Who is she confessing to?  What does her confession reveal? 

This exercise is great for deepening existing characters and creating new ones, revealing hidden motivations and desires, developing new story lines and subplots, etc.  If it works for you, try it on a larger scale.  Dream big.  What if your character stole a baby?  A family history?  A ski resort?  The motivations behind theft are rich and complex, and not always criminal; they can reveal a lot about who your characters are, how they're motivated in your story, and how they're likely to change by the time the plot wraps up.  

If change is on your mind but stolen objects don't strike your interest, try an open free write from this month's photo prompt and see if it sparks some ideas.

*exercise adapted from Now Write!, edited by Sherry Ellis

Powerful Questions

"Quotes"

The right question can change your outlook, challenge your assumptions and set you on a new course.  How would you answer these?

  • Are there changes currently happening in your life that you're resisting?  What might happen if you embraced them instead?

  • What changes would you like to make in your life/writing/relationships that you haven't yet acted on?  How would you benefit from making them? 

  • What concrete actions can you take this month to bring these changes about?

"It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent, but the one most responsive to change."

- Charles Darwin (Naturalist; 1809-1882)

"If you don't like something, change it.  If you can't change it, change your attitude.  Don't complain."

- Maya Angelou (Teacher, writer, actor, producer; 1928- )

 

 

"Change will not come if we wait for some other person or some other time.  We are the ones we've been waiting for.  We are the change that we seek."

- Barack Obama (U.S. President; 1961-)

"Change is inevitable, except from vending machines."

-Unknown

Coach, author and workshop facilitator Doug Kurtz is certified through the Coach Training Alliance and earned his MA in creative writing from the University of Colorado, Boulder. His compassionate, results-driven coaching helps writers find the inspiration, motivation and tools they need to move successfully through every phase of the writing process.  Request a no-pressure, no-obligation sample session and discover what coaching can do for you.

Doug Kurtz, MA, CTACC

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